If you've spent most of your life making yourself smaller to keep the peace, tuning into everyone else's needs while quietly abandoning your own, you're not broken. It's how you learned to survive.

The fawn response is a deeply ingrained pattern where we become experts at managing other people's emotions, avoiding conflict, and morphing ourselves to feel safe in relationships. It can look like people-pleasing, swallowing anger, or struggling to say no. Over time, this way of moving through the world can leave you feeling far from yourself, quietly resentful, and deeply lonely, even when surrounded by others.

In our work together, we won't try to get rid of this part of you. It developed for a reason, and it has protected you. Instead, we'll gently explore what it's been carrying, and begin to shift your relationship to it, so it no longer has to work quite so hard.

We'll work at a pace that feels manageable, starting with small, safe moments of honesty and self-expression, gradually building your tolerance for the discomfort that comes with being truly seen. You'll begin to notice what you're feeling, name it without judgement, and slowly learn that you can speak up and still be safe. That you can be uncomfortable and okay at the same time.

This is less about becoming someone new, and more about uncovering who you've always been, beneath the accommodating, the over-giving, and the quiet self-erasure. A relationship with yourself, and with others, where you don't have to disappear to belong.

This is a space that is genuinely affirming, not just in principle, but in practice. Free from assumption, free from the pressure to arrive at neat conclusions, and shaped entirely around your own pace and language.

Whether you're exploring your sexual orientation, gender identity, or the intersection of both, or beginning to understand who you are beyond or outside of these aspects, including how you relate to others and form attachments, I'll meet you with curiosity rather than judgement.

That extends to relationship structures too. Whether you're navigating non-monogamy, polyamory, or simply questioning what you want and need from relationships, you won't need to justify or explain your choices here. All relationship structures are welcome.

Identity is rarely linear. The LGBTQIA+ experience often carries layers of grief, joy, relief, and ambiguity all at once, sometimes within the same session. My role isn't to guide you toward a particular destination. It's to walk alongside you as you find your own.

Self-esteem sits at the heart of much of my work, particularly for people navigating relationship breakdown or recovering from emotional abuse.

These experiences share a common wound: a gradual, systematic erosion of the self. Often so gradual that people arrive in therapy unsure where the other person's narrative ends and their own sense of identity begins.

Using a person-centred and trauma-informed approach, we'll gently untangle that together, rebuilding a relationship with yourself that's grounded in your own values, needs, and worth, rather than in how you were seen or treated by someone else.

This is an area I understand not only professionally, but personally. That informs both my depth of understanding and my genuine belief in recovery and reclaimed selfhood.